"...and if you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry and satisfy the needs of the oppressed..." - Isaiah 58:10
Tuesday, November 11, 2014
Veterans day, orphan care and Christmas....
Having traveled to well over 20 countries, I'm always grateful to be home...my family and my own bed, but I'm not always glad to be back in America. Spending time in other places, especially poorer places, can shine a spotlight on the consumerism and sense of entitlement we struggle with as Americans. Seeing people in other cultures who physically have so little yet are so joyful and so generous can make the abundance of America overwhelming.
However, as I listened to an Army veteran on Sunday, with tears in his eyes, remind our church body about how amazing it is that we could freely gather to worship Jesus, I was freshly overwhelmed with gratefulness for the peace and freedom we experience in America.
Our military and government certainly provide plenty of topics to debate and disagree over, but I don't ever want to take for granted the great sacrifices that countless men and women have made over the years that allow us to live and worship in peace and freedom.
So as I spend today trying to prepare for a thoughtful, intentional and worshipful Advent season for my family and gift giving that will honor those we love, I am overwhelmed with gratitude.
As I think of my brothers and sisters in Christ around the world who are spending themselves to care for those in need, and who are suffering because they choose Christ, I am humbled to count them as family, and longing to honor them in prayer and in the choices that I make this season.
So whether or not we find ourselves in peace and freedom, may we be consumed with the peace of Christ that transcends circumstances and passes understanding.
Thursday, April 3, 2014
Prayer Update - Iraq
This is a portion of a newsletter written by my co-worker living in northern Iraq. It struck me as an excellent summary of what the Christian life calls us to, and I'm praying Lent is a time to focus my heart and have a fresh understanding of a life that is about seeking Him, finding Him, walking closer with Him...
My prayer for you is that this Lent season finds you with a renewed sense of passion and awe at God's love for us.
And I'd ask that you'd join me in prayer that the Lord would encourage this family as they walk with Him....
Jesus is drawing all of us into the limits of our own abilities and beyond. The life of faith seems hardly worth living if He's not, and so, the stretching, stretching, and more stretching continues... unabated.
But, aren't we so glad it does. When we finally get to the end, we'll be able to look back and see a life that was SPENT, not hoarded, a life that was consumed by God's grace and presence, not just kept safe and secure in the mires of our own personal goals and dreams.
It's a life of sacrifice that God has called us to, and if we're not on that road then, our spirits' should be crying out for it. For it is upon that road that we find Christ.
I want to find Him... closer today than yesterday, more ever present than I could imagine, truly one with Him, doing together what the Father is doing in our world.
Hurdles are ever-present just like with everyone else, so please keep us close to your hearts and in your prayers, and step by step we'll climb the mountain together.
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Friday, March 14, 2014
One of the many reasons we need our family....
Recently I read this article, "What we say when we don't mention the Gospel" an honest and well written reminder of our desperate need for a Savior....and for me another reminder of of our need for relationship. (Highly recommend reading the article - definitely worth the time.)
Being in relationship, in true partnership, with Christ followers in other cultures, reminds me in deep ways that what really matters is Jesus, trust in the hope and truth of His Gospel.
Being in real cross-cultural relationship has a way of showing you that you don't have all the answers and you don't have everything figured out. The food, the dress, the music, the style of worship, the approach to time....it's all gloriously different.
A reminder that God is calling to Himself people from every tribe, tongue and nation.
A reminder that there are a lot of things that are important, but only one is necessary....Jesus.
I pray this season of Lent finds you being reminded of the sufficiency, centrality, beauty, joy and amazement of Jesus. (Really great thoughts and recommended readings, here.)
Monday, January 20, 2014
Vision for the year...prayer update
There was a consensus that quarterly newsletter updates are good, that people do want to hear a combo of the overall ministry, my specific role, and how my family is doing. And EVERYONE wants more pictures of Jazmine :)
One thing I heard from a number of people was a request for more prayer updates. So hear is my goal...
I'm committed to actually sending out quarterly newsletter updates (not just drafting them) that are hopefully interesting to read, and have plenty of pictures of Jazmine.
But in between the newsletters, I'd like to do a once a month blog post with ways you can pray for the ministry and/or my family.
So....It's not the end of January yet and here's a prayer update! Thankful to be off to a decent start :)
I am honored to be part of a ministry that exists to empower the church to care for orphans....until they all have homes.
Please pray that the Lord will grant the entire World Orphans team joy in working hard in our roles, unity in working as a team spread out all over the US and around the world, and that in the midst of the details (which are really important) that we'll keep our eyes on the eternal purpose of what God has called us to as we equip, inspire, and mobilize the church to care for orphans and vulnerable children...to see churches engaged, children restored, and communities transformed by the Gospel of Christ.
Friday, December 6, 2013
St. Nicholas....
On and off through the years I have heard bits and pieces of the history of St. Nicholas. I am sure that differing sources will lead to different versions of the story, but I believe it's agreed upon that the third century St. Nicholas is the original person that the stories, traditions, and legends of Santa Claus are based on.
Regardless of whether or not you incorporate Santa Claus into your Christmas celebrations, I think it is very note-worthy that St. Nicholas was known as a defender of children.
Contrary to the popular notion of him giving gifts to "good boys and girls", he was about helping and defending those in need!
One source says:
His wealthy parents, who raised him to be a devout Christian, died in an epidemic while Nicholas was still young. Obeying Jesus' words to "sell what you own and give the money to the poor," Nicholas used his whole inheritance to assist the needy, the sick, and the suffering. He dedicated his life to serving God and was made a bishop while he was still a young man. Bishop Nicholas because known throughout the land for his generosity to those in need, his love for children, and his concern for sailors and ships. Under the Roman Emperor Diocletian, who ruthlessly persecuted Christians, Bishop Nicholas suffered for his faith, was exiled and imprisoned.... Through the centuries many stories and legends have been told of St. Nicholas' life and deeds. These accounts help us understand his extraordinary character and why he is so beloved and revered as a protector and helper of those in need.
Santa Claus is based on a man who loved Jesus, suffered for his faith, and spent his life assisting the needy, the sick and especially children!
Just recently I listened to one of my co-workers share of the beautiful, sacrificial faith of our World Orphans church partners around the world who give even out of their own physical poverty and physical need. They give, trusting the One who supplies all things, knowing that ultimate hope is in Him. They give and love sacrificially to see that children cared for and hear of His love for them.
This Christmas I find myself praying that my family will learn from our brothers and sisters in Christ around the world and enjoy giving sacrificially to reflect the most sacrificial love ever of The Baby who was born in Bethlehem. May we boldly look to Jesus and remember the cloud of witnesses, like St. Nicholas, and let our lives, including our Christmases, be about spending ourselves for the least of these.
Thursday, November 21, 2013
Approaching Thanksgiving...
I wish I was in the mood to reflect and be thoughtful about Thanksgiving....because I love setting aside time to remember the history of our home and to focus on being grateful.
BUT....I'm in the process of finalizing a draft of a chapter that World Orphans is contributing to a book project, which I'm super excited about. But at the moment, fried on writing.
So bullet points it is :) These are the significant days we have approaching:
- Thanksgiving
- Black Friday
- Cyber Monday
- Giving Tuesday!
Monday, October 21, 2013
Win a gift!
On a heart level I enjoy keeping in touch with people because I love staying connected.
On a professional level, I know that being in a support-raised position, it's important for me to communicate what I'm doing.
I know I need to find a better system (just something that personally works better for me so I don't put it off) so I can send pictures and updates more regularly (via email and blog, with links on Facebook, of course).
As I thought about it I realized that I want to hear from YOU, my friends and family who actually read what I write :) What do you want to hear about?
So....fill out this short survey and be in a drawing for a free gift from the World Orphans store!
I'll take submissions until the end of November, and don't worry, it's only a few questions :) It will only take a minute - thanks!!
Sunday, July 28, 2013
Family Visits...thoughts on short-term missions and church partnership
BUT...that is not why we enjoy the time. What we enjoy and ache for when we say goodbye....the conversations had over coffee, walks to the park, books read to Jazmine, cooking together, eating together, laughing together, crying together. I know we are where God has us to be and we love our community here in Tennessee, but I just wish Jazmine had more time with her grandparents, aunt, uncles and cousins.
So that is the backdrop for my thoughts.
Our home church just got back from visiting our World Orphans church partner in Kenya. It was a sweet time filled with the churches spending time together and ministering alongside one another. Were there gifts and treats given? Sure. By now there are deep friendships and thoughtful gifts are given both ways. Are there finances involved in the relationship? Yes. The US church helps fund some of the ministries of their church partner. BUT...this is why I love the World Orphans model of church partnership...the money is a part of it, but not what the relationship is about. The yearly (or bi-yearly, quarterly...however it goes) short-term trips are part of a much bigger context of relationship.
So just as we are grateful for the gifts our families give, the churches are grateful for the gifts from their church partner. But, because of the long-term commitment and real relationship, I believe that like with my family, that what I love, miss, and long for is the time together, that is what is at the heart of a true church partnership.
So I don't think we need to be afraid of the gift-giving aspect of church partnership and short-term trips. We have to be wise and thoughtful, just as we do within our families. But just as our families love to give gifts as an expression of their love, I believe there is a healthy place for gift-giving within short-term trips and church partnerships. The key is the context of relationship.
I am so thankful for the way our families care for us physically....but what I'm longing for and waiting for is that next visit when we can spend time together. And it's beautiful to watch those types of relationships grow among our World Orphans church partners...to hear accounts and read trip reports that speak of growing, deep, and abiding friendships. There is gratitude for the gifts and the funds, but the longing is for the next time of fellowship.
Thursday, January 31, 2013
I miss knowing she's praying...
She was one of those people who makes you think, "Lord, I want to be like that. I want to walk with You like she walks with You."
She loved praying for people, she loved serving people, and most of all she loved sharing Jesus with people. She had a story for everything and it always ended up being about God's goodness and His faithfulness.
In 2011 she committed to be part of my financial support team with World Orphans. The $15 dollars a month that she gave was like a million dollars to me...because I knew she was praying. I know she spent hours a day praying, and it was an honor to know she was praying for me, my family, World Orphans...
She went home to be with the Lord last year. She had lived a long, full life and was certainly ready to be with her Savior who she had walked so closely with in this life. Her funeral was a celebration of her life, feelings of thanks that she wasn't suffering, yet full of grief for all those so sad to say goodbye.
As I get settled into this new year I find myself missing her. We don't live in New Jersey anymore so I wouldn't be seeing her regularly, but I miss knowing she's praying. I feel so very honored to have known her and I desire to serve, love, and pray for others like she did.
Particularly as I think of the children being cared for through the ministries of our church partners, children who know deep loss, pain and suffering.... I long for those children to know the touch of someone to faithfully love and pray.
Monday, January 28, 2013
Tuesday, December 18, 2012
Preparing To Celebrate The Light Of The World
- Gift giving is biblical. All throughout scripture, the old and new testament, God is pleased when people honor one another and honor Him with lavish gift giving. Do we have to be careful? Sure. It’s easy to get carried away and have our focus be cultural rather than biblical. But it can also be a wonderful thing to have a special time each year to intentionally honor those we love by giving them gifts.
- Scripture is clear that as humans we need to remember and be reminded. In the Old Testament, God told His people to have stones and places of remembrance, and He commanded them to celebrate things year after year. Why? Because He knows our tendency to stray and to forget. So yes, the commercialism and consumerism of Christmas in America is a challenge for Christians, and we have to be intentional about celebrating in a way that honors Christ. But, it is a wonderful thing to have a time each year where we stop and remember, to remind ourselves of what it means that the Father sent the Son, that He was born as a baby…
- And why do we need to be reminded that Christ was born? Because it changes everything. Immanuel, God is with us! “The Word was with God, and the Word was God….and He came to be with us! Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind….” Because Christ came, we have life. He made the way for us to be acceptable to The Father, for us to be sons and daughters of The Most High God. That truth affects every moment of every day. May Christmas be a time to celebrate that and to remind us of the awesomeness of the Gospel.
Friday, December 7, 2012
Merry Christmas, from World Orphans
So That He May Be Known
Friday, August 10, 2012
Exciting Stuff...
Thinking about the number of children in need overwhelms me, and I feel more passionately each day that equipping the local church around the world is the most biblical and most feasible way to rescue and care for them.
Monday, July 30, 2012
This Night...
This night as I sink tired, yet comfortably into bed I am overwhelmed by all those whose place of rest is so uncomfortable.
This night some sleep too hot, so hot it takes your breath away...others are too cold. Some too dry, their bodies and land parched for clean refreshing water. Others are too wet. The rain soaks their roof and walls and floors and bed, it takes away their comfort and threatens their safety. Yet their exhaustion drives them to sleep, but I imagine it's a fitful sleep. Sound sleep interrupted by questions of safety and what will fill the children's empty bellies.
So this night, overwhelmed with gratefulness for my safe and comfortable bed, I am reminded of my need for mercy. Why I enjoy the safety and comfort I do not know.
I am also overwhelmed with gratefulness that my acceptance with Creator God is based not on my work or my righteousness, but on the perfect righteousness of Christ and His perfect, saving, redeeming sacrifice.
So while I rest in being a child of the Most Hight God by faith in Jesus Christ, I am reminded of His words that to whom much is given, much will be required.
So this night I find myself sinking into my safe comfortable bed begging that He will allow me to be spent that those who are hurting may know His redemption, not only in their hearts but in their lives.
Lord Jesus, have mercy.
My reflections on July 30, 2011
Having a newborn to care for, I was so grateful that we had a safe place to call home where we could care for her, that I had enough food and water and was able to nurse her, that Chris had the summer off from school and we were able to enjoy time together as a family, and that we were surrounded by friends and family who loved us and Jazmine in amazing ways.
And being a new mom, I was grieved in deep ways that there are parents all over the world who desperately want to care for their children and are not able to because of poverty, war, sickness, and so many other evils. And also grieved that there are so many children around the world who don't have someone to love, care for, and protect them.
July 30, 2012
Today I find myself on the brink of a new season in life as we have recently moved, Chris is done with school and has started a new job. I continue to find myself overwhelmed with gratefulness for the Lord's sustaining us and providing for us. We continue to ask what it looks like that we would joyfully spend ourselves so that others may see a tangible reflection of His love, care and provision...
Monday, April 2, 2012
T4A Partnership
Thankfully, there are other ministries focused on other aspects of orphan care. One of those ministries that we often refer people to and we are so thankful to be in partnership with, is Together for Adoption.
There's a lot of exciting stuff happening at T4A, but we are particularly excited that their director, Dan Cruver, is partnering with us to provide training and equipping for some of our international partners...specifically this May in Nicaragua.
My gifted co-worker, Kathy Davis takes the lead on facilitating these trainings, that we are finding to be super effective and fruitful for our partners. Read her posts about the last time we partnered with Dan, in Haiti, May 2011 HERE. And our last training was in Ethiopia in November, 2011, that you can read about HERE.
Happy reading!
Thursday, February 23, 2012
Work with me at World Orphans!
Are you passionate about short-term missions?
Do you enjoy training and equipping team leaders and members to help make their short-term mission trip a positive, Kingdom-building experience for everyone involved?
Are you organized, like details, have good communication skills?
Is God calling you to be involved in orphan care ministry?
If you answered yes to those questions (or know someone who would)....let's talk about the job opening World Orphans has for our Mobilization Director.
(The reason you'd be working with me is because it's currently a role that I am filling, but we are looking for someone to fill the position who can give it their undivided attention and allow me to fill other roles within the ministry....we would work together closely.)
We sent over 30 international short-term mission teams in 2011 and will send more in 2012. Our busy and growing Mobilization Department needs an energetic and passionate leader who will invest themselves in seeing that World Orphans does an excellent job preparing, facilitating, sending and debriefing our teams.
Interested or know someone who would be? Call or email me and we'll talk!
865-776-5477/kate@worldorphans.org
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
The size of her clothes...
And as I fold her sweet little clothes I find myself thinking of all the children around the world who don't have a mom to lovingly fold their clothes.
So it's with a heavy heart that I crawl into bed...grateful for my little girl and grieving for all the little ones who don't have a safe place to sleep tonight.
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
2011 Borders Year-in-Review
Challenging - Chris's work as a graduate student: Chris continues to work and study very hard as he prepares to be a Physician Assistant. Currently in his third and final year of his masters degree, Chris has spent countless hours in a dozen hospitals around the state of New Jersey. He loves what he is learning and looks forward to completing his degree in May 2012. At this point Chris anticipates practicing in the area of primary care. The location of where our family will settle is still up in the air...we’re thinking somewhere on the eastern seaboard....stay tuned for our 2012 year end letter to find out! We look forward to seeing how the Lord leads us.
Chris and I would love to hear what 2011 held for you and what 2012 has in store. We pray this finds you growing in the presence and knowledge of Christ. Immanuel - God is with us!

Monday, November 28, 2011
Don't Worry...
The program is designed to ensure that the children receive: spiritual care - through discipleship during home visitations and participation in a weekly children’s program at the church; emotional care – by providing ongoing counseling, group activities, and home visitations; physical care – in the form of food, access to clean drinking water, and access to medical care; and mental care – by ensuring access and support of education.
As I feed my daughter and lay her down to sleep, faces of dear brothers and sisters I have ment through World Orphans partnerships flash through my mind. My heart aches knowing there are grieving parents putting their children to be hungry. At the same time I am very humbled by how hard parents, aunts, uncles, grandparents, community members and church bodies are working to care and provide for those children.
As we seek to care for children, whether it be children under our roof or children around the world, may we never lose sight of the greatest need we all have, for our relationship with God to be restored. Praise God that He has met that need, through the Gospel of Christ. As we meet physical needs, may we never cease to point one another to the Gospel.
Currently World Orphans has Home-Based Care programs in Haiti and Ethiopia. Click HERE to read more about Home-Based Care and click HERE to start a campaign to raise money to support orphan care ministry around the world.
A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling. God sets the lonely in families, he leads out the prisoners with singing... - Psalm 68:5-6
Monday, August 22, 2011
Our baby girl...
1 day old





